by Starr | Aug 20, 2019 | Correspondence, Dating and divorce, vintage me
As we continue our exploration of our brains in relationship…let’s take a look at some of the lies we tell ourselves. The funny thing is, as I look at this list, it seems long and the temptation is great to edit it down and take out some of the more embarrassing lies…...
by Starr | Jul 23, 2019 | Dating and divorce, Personal, vintage me, Weekly Wisdom
A “vintage me” post from back in the heady, heartbreaking days of my divorce. Written around 2005 I used the phrase “alone in my head without adult supervision” with Shaunna last night and she just cracked up. By the way, I’m sure...
by Starr | May 1, 2019 | Dating and divorce, Personal, vintage me
Oh man….this one was so hard for me to read. Written in 2014, the woman I was then is barely recognizable compared to the woman I am today…but this…this is where she was born. I stood up to him yesterday I don’t know why…well, at least...
by Starr | Apr 6, 2019 | Dating and divorce, Personal
Let’s face it, from an early age, we’re taught to lie. It’s not meant to be that way, but as kids, we were told to be polite, to not hurt other people’s feelings, to agree. We’ve been trained to lie from the moment our mother’s teach us the rhyme “sugar and spice and...
by Starr | Dec 7, 2018 | Dating and divorce
Answers to the 5 questions that make you crazy after a break up When we are in the heat of the moment of a break up, everything seems to crystalize and we reach a moment of clarity in which the decision has been made to part ways. Sure, sometimes you go back and forth...
by Starr | Mar 16, 2018 | Dating and divorce
… It’s been 2 years, well I guess 3 since my 2nd divorce. I’ll admit… I went a bit crazy again after my 2nd marriage ended. And well… The old patterns started showing up again. But this time I had a lot more knowledge. And I had a really...
