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Some of the greatest lies I told to myself.

As we continue our exploration of our brains in relationship…let’s take a look at some of the lies we tell ourselves. The funny thing is, as I look at this list, it seems long and the temptation is great to edit it down and take out some…
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Alone in my head without adult supervision - Part 1

A "vintage me" post from back in the heady, heartbreaking days of my divorce. Written around 2005    I used the phrase "alone in my head without adult supervision" with Shaunna last night and she just cracked up. By the way,…
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I stood up to him yesterday - walking away from a narcissist

    Oh man....this one was so hard for me to read. Written in 2014, the woman I was then is barely recognizable compared to the woman I am today...but this...this is where she was born. I stood up to him yesterday I…

Chapter 4 - From Fear to Fierce

... It's been 2 years, well I guess 3 since my 2nd divorce. I'll admit... I went a bit crazy again after my 2nd marriage ended. And well... The old patterns started showing up again. But this time I had a lot more knowledge. And I had…

Chapter 3 - Living a Lie

So... Yes... My 2nd marriage was a big fat lie. And I was well and truly stuck. And worse than that... He had a LOT of money and he married me because I didn't really think money was that important. Funnily enough apparently, I also…

Chapter 2 - In Which Starr Loses Her Mind

And then there was my post divorce insanity... In which Starr lost her mind And her dignity (if I ever actually had it) And well... I've told my kids that I will pay for their therapy. Still... They seem to be ok so far. It was crazy. I…