Starr’s stories from the dating world and a look into the spiritual side of divorce

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I stood up to him yesterday - walking away from a narcissist

    Oh man....this one was so hard for me to read. Written in 2014, the woman I was then is barely recognizable compared to the woman I am today...but this...this is where she was born. I stood up to him yesterday I…
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Caught in My Own Trap

Let’s face it, from an early age, we’re taught to lie. It’s not meant to be that way, but as kids, we were told to be polite, to not hurt other people’s feelings, to agree. We’ve been trained to lie from the moment our mother’s…

5 Questions That Drive You Crazy After a Break-up, (and the Answers That Will Save You)

Answers to the 5 questions that make you crazy after a break up   When we are in the heat of the moment of a break up, everything seems to crystalize and we reach a moment of clarity in which the decision has been made to part ways.…

Chapter 4 - From Fear to Fierce

... It's been 2 years, well I guess 3 since my 2nd divorce. I'll admit... I went a bit crazy again after my 2nd marriage ended. And well... The old patterns started showing up again. But this time I had a lot more knowledge. And I had…

Chapter 3 - Living a Lie

So... Yes... My 2nd marriage was a big fat lie. And I was well and truly stuck. And worse than that... He had a LOT of money and he married me because I didn't really think money was that important. Funnily enough apparently, I also…

Chapter 2 - In Which Starr Loses Her Mind

And then there was my post divorce insanity... In which Starr lost her mind And her dignity (if I ever actually had it) And well... I've told my kids that I will pay for their therapy. Still... They seem to be ok so far. It was crazy. I…

Chapter 1 - A Hot Mess

I don't know if you would believe it or not knowing me now... But I used to be a hot mess... Like seriously... Marriage number 1 lasted for about 20 years I was a drama queen. I couldn't keep a secret to save my life. People were…