Starr’s stories from the dating world and a look into the spiritual side of divorce

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Some of the greatest lies I told to myself.

As we continue our exploration of our brains in relationship…let’s take a look at some of the lies we tell ourselves. The funny thing is, as I look at this list, it seems long and the temptation is great to edit it down and take out some…
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Alone in my head without adult supervision - Part 1

A "vintage me" post from back in the heady, heartbreaking days of my divorce. Written around 2005    I used the phrase "alone in my head without adult supervision" with Shaunna last night and she just cracked up. By the way,…
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I stood up to him yesterday - walking away from a narcissist

    Oh man....this one was so hard for me to read. Written in 2014, the woman I was then is barely recognizable compared to the woman I am today...but this...this is where she was born. I stood up to him yesterday I…
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Caught in My Own Trap

Let’s face it, from an early age, we’re taught to lie. It’s not meant to be that way, but as kids, we were told to be polite, to not hurt other people’s feelings, to agree. We’ve been trained to lie from the moment our mother’s…

5 Questions That Drive You Crazy After a Break-up, (and the Answers That Will Save You)

Answers to the 5 questions that make you crazy after a break up   When we are in the heat of the moment of a break up, everything seems to crystalize and we reach a moment of clarity in which the decision has been made to part ways.…

Chapter 4 - From Fear to Fierce

... It's been 2 years, well I guess 3 since my 2nd divorce. I'll admit... I went a bit crazy again after my 2nd marriage ended. And well... The old patterns started showing up again. But this time I had a lot more knowledge. And I had…