Starr’s stories from the dating world and a look into the spiritual side of divorce

5 Questions That Drive You Crazy After a Break-up, (and the Answers That Will Save You)

Answers to the 5 questions that make you crazy after a break up   When we are in the heat of the moment of a break up, everything seems to crystalize and we reach a moment of clarity in which the decision has been made to part ways.…

Chapter 4 - From Fear to Fierce

... It's been 2 years, well I guess 3 since my 2nd divorce. I'll admit... I went a bit crazy again after my 2nd marriage ended. And well... The old patterns started showing up again. But this time I had a lot more knowledge. And I had…

Chapter 3 - Living a Lie

So... Yes... My 2nd marriage was a big fat lie. And I was well and truly stuck. And worse than that... He had a LOT of money and he married me because I didn't really think money was that important. Funnily enough apparently, I also…

Chapter 2 - In Which Starr Loses Her Mind

And then there was my post divorce insanity... In which Starr lost her mind And her dignity (if I ever actually had it) And well... I've told my kids that I will pay for their therapy. Still... They seem to be ok so far. It was crazy. I…

Chapter 1 - A Hot Mess

I don't know if you would believe it or not knowing me now... But I used to be a hot mess... Like seriously... Marriage number 1 lasted for about 20 years I was a drama queen. I couldn't keep a secret to save my life. People were…